More Than a Retreat—Support Before, During & After Your Healing Journey
At Hiraeth Hope & Healing, Inc., we understand that every individual's journey is different, and we are here to provide unwavering support before, during, and after your healing journey. We recognize and support all DNA surprises, providing a safe and nurturing space where Adopted Folks, DCPs, LDAs, and NPEs can find connection, understanding, and healing.
Since 2019, each retreat has been a unique journey—because no two retreats are ever the same!
In addition to the transformative retreat experience, we offer a variety of support options that can be engaged before, during, or in place of a retreat. We have many online resources including our 8 active Facebook Groups that provide a platform for ongoing support, discussion, and connection within the community. Our Peer-to-Peer & Trauma-Informed Professionals Zoom Support offers a space to connect with others who understand your experience. We also provide Online Workshops focused on therapeutic processing through writing and mindfulness healing.
Our curated list of Recommended Reading covers topics related to Adoption, DCP/LDA/NPE/DNA Surprise experiences, and transformative growth. For those seeking connection to their biological roots, our volunteer Genetic Genealogists are available to assist with FREE DNA searches. We also host Documentary Viewings to deepen understanding of the challenges and healing processes related to DNA surprises.
Our Blog serves as an ongoing resource, sharing insights and experiences to support your journey. Additionally, we offer scholarships to ensure that financial barriers do not prevent individuals from accessing some of these healing spaces.
This comprehensive network of support ensures that your healing journey is nurtured every step of the way.
Our Story
Hiraeth Hope & Healing was founded with a deep commitment to supporting Adopted Folks, DCPs, LDAs, and NPEs on their path to healing. The journey began in March 2019 when the founders met serendipitously at an NPE gathering. There, they immediately recognized the pressing need for more in-person spaces where individuals could connect, share their experiences, and heal together. Read more about Erin & Cindy.
Moved by this realization, they began planning their first retreat without hesitation. Just months later, in October 2019, Hiraeth Hope & Healing hosted the inaugural Jersey Shore Roundtable Retreat—an event that exceeded all expectations and confirmed the profound impact of gathering in community.
How It All Began…
Since that first retreat, Hiraeth Hope & Healing has continued to grow, offering transformative spaces where individuals can find solace, understanding, and empowerment. With each retreat, the mission remains the same: to create a haven for those seeking connection, healing, and a sense of belonging.
And the Journey Continues…
Our Mission
Hiraeth Hope & Healing, Inc. is dedicated to providing a safe and transformative space for Adopted Folks, DCPs, LDAs, and NPEs. Through immersive retreats and community support, we foster healing, empowerment, and deep connections, helping individuals reclaim their identity and truth. Rooted in solidarity and compassion, our mission is to create a path toward healing and justice for those affected by the lifelong impact of family separation.
“We don’t heal in isolation, but in community.” —S. Kelley Harrell
Togetherness Heals
Healing Retreats: A Journey of Connection & Transformation
Escape, Heal, and Rejuvenate: A 5-Day Retreat in Community
Step away from the demands of daily life and immerse yourself in a transformative retreat, held three times a year in April, July, & October. Designed for deep reflection and renewal, our retreats take place in private, luxurious residences, providing a sanctuary for healing. With a maximum of 30 attendees, this intimate gathering offers the opportunity to build meaningful connections in a supportive environment.
Our carefully curated facilitators—experts in various healing modalities—lead transformative sessions tailored to meet you wherever you are on your journey. From mindfulness practices to therapeutic workshops, each day presents opportunities for personal breakthroughs and collective support.
Enjoy eight thoughtfully prepared meals that foster connection and community, alongside seven to eight rotating healing sessions. With ample time for relaxation and the opportunity to build lasting relationships, our retreats nurture the body, mind, and spirit.
Since 2019, each retreat has been a unique journey of healing, connection, and growth—because no two retreats are ever the same.
Saturday Shenanigans
Saturday evenings are all about fun and laughter! We come together for “Eve’s Game” (a tribute to Eve Sturges), blending elements of Left, Center, Right, 20 Questions, and the excitement of a Las Vegas-style casino night. If you're eager for in-person connections but short on time, you can register for Saturday Shenanigans as a standalone experience.
Additional Highlights
Prizes, raffles, and live auctions throughout the retreat
Exclusive SWAG bags filled with thoughtful gifts
A warm and welcoming atmosphere where you’re embraced and understood—even before you’ve met
Join us and experience the power of community healing, where shared stories and deep connections help restore the spirit.
Optional Enhancements
As our retreat comes to a close, we honor the journey with a dedicated time for decompression and self-care. Before departing, attendees are invited to immerse themselves in Relax, Refresh, Renew—a serene and healing experience designed to restore balance and process the weekend’s profound connections.
For an additional cost, you may book sessions with a massage therapist, psychic medium, Reiki practitioner, and other holistic healers that we bring in to offer gentle support as you transition back into daily life (offerings may vary). This is your time to unwind, reflect, and integrate the emotions and insights gained throughout the retreat.
You may choose to watch a movie together, enjoy the house amenities, or simply relax in good company. However you spend this time, it’s an opportunity to nurture yourself and embrace the peace before heading home.
Spring Retreat Details
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We’ve secured two stunning, side-by-side oceanside homes just a short walk from the beach. Designed for connection and relaxation, these homes feature three separate living areas, multiple deck levels, heated in-ground gunite pools, and rooftop decks with breathtaking bay sunset views.
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$449 per person + lodging (includes meals from Thursday dinner through Monday breakfast)
Summer Retreat Details
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Set on 10 peaceful acres in Enumclaw, WA, this stunning five-bedroom estate offers the perfect balance of nature and comfort. Enjoy fresh eggs from the chicken coop, friendly farm animals, and breathtaking views of Mount Rainier. Relax in the hot tub under the stars, gather around the fire pit, or unwind on the spacious deck. Inside, the 5,000-square-foot home features inviting spaces and a baby grand piano for music lovers.
Located just 53 minutes from SeaTac Airport, this retreat is designed for healing, connection, and renewal. -
$449 per person + lodging (includes meals from Thursday dinner through Monday breakfast)
Fall Retreat Details
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$449 per person + lodging (includes meals from Thursday dinner through Monday breakfast)
Please be sure to join our PRIVATE Facebook group for more insider information.
NEW! We’re excited to offer Klarna as a flexible payment option for our retreats! You can now split your payment cost into 4 interest-free payments, made every 2 weeks.
Our Impact: Transforming Lives, One Retreat at a Time
Since our founding, Hiraeth Hope & Healing, Inc. has remained committed to making healing accessible to all through our scholarship program. Over the past six years, we have had the privilege of impacting countless lives. We’ve hosted more than 17 transformative retreats, awarded over $8,000 in scholarships, and supported over 500 individuals on their healing journey.
Each retreat is not just an event—it's a transformative experience that empowers participants to reconnect with themselves, their families, and their community. Since 2019, each retreat has been a unique journey of healing, connection, and growth—because no two retreats are ever the same.
Help make healing accessible. Your support changes lives.
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See Our Retreats in Action
See the transformative experiences of our community and the healing that takes place.
A heartfelt glimpse into our retreats, lovingly captured by attendee Lori Tirado.
Real Stories of Healing & Connection
Hear from those whose lives have been changed through our retreats.
“There were great workshops by skilled licensed facilitators, fun activities and games, and down-time to just chat. Friendly and supportive group. What a transformative experience. Loved it!” -Michelle, DE
“There were great workshops by skilled licensed facilitators, fun activities and games, and down-time to just chat. Friendly and supportive group. What a transformative experience. Loved it!” -Michelle, DE
“I highly recommend these retreats for all NPEs, DC, LDAs, and Adoptees.” -Heather, CT
“I highly recommend these retreats for all NPEs, DC, LDAs, and Adoptees.” -Heather, CT
“This group has been life-changing in the most positive way.” -Peg, VA
“This group has been life-changing in the most positive way.” -Peg, VA
“There is no excuse not to attend – for yourself, or for others. It was for me and will be for you a very rewarding experience.” -Dennis, NJ
“There is no excuse not to attend – for yourself, or for others. It was for me and will be for you a very rewarding experience.” -Dennis, NJ
“Incredible experience of togetherness with people who get it.” -Cassandra, NJ
“Incredible experience of togetherness with people who get it.” -Cassandra, NJ
Support Beyond Our Retreats
Find connection, community, and support in a space made for you
Peer-to-Peer Zoom Support
Online Workshops: Therapeutic Processing through Writing, Mindfulness Healing
Recommended Reading: Adoption, DCP/LDA/NPE/DNA Surprise, Transformative Growth
“Allies & Intersections”
This Venn diagram, inspired by Cassandra Adams, a DCP advocate within our community, clearly illustrates why we feel so strongly about healing together.
